Lately I’ve been posed the same questions on more than three occasions: “What’s it like being a father?” It’s a very open ended question with a lot of potential answers and the answers that I give vary depending on who’s asking and how much time I have. It’s quick and easy to go the route of clichés about sleepless nights or quick sentimental sound bites about how kids grow up so fast. All of that is true, but seems insignificant and when I consider the real and unexpected va